The Night Old Friends Became My Unexpected Business Strategy
- JP de la Rama
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- 3 min read
“Relationships built over time will outperform connections built for gain.”
Introduction — Setting the Stage
Last night didn’t look like work.
It looked like laughter.
Like stories that didn’t need context.
Like inside jokes that survived years of silence.
Old friends. Same energy. Different lives.
We sat there—older, a bit more tired, carrying responsibilities we didn’t have before—but something felt… intact.
And that’s when it hit me:
Some of the most powerful assets I have as an artist… aren’t in my portfolio. They’re in my relationships.
Not followers.
Not clients.
Not algorithms.
People. Real people.
The Deep Dive — The Lie We’re Sold About “Networking”
Let me be honest.
When I started taking my art career seriously, I thought “networking” meant:
Adding people on LinkedIn
Sending cold messages
Chasing opportunities
Talking to strangers with an agenda
And yes… I’ve done all of that.
Some of it worked.
Most of it felt empty.
Because here’s the uncomfortable truth:
You can’t manufacture a real connection on demand.
And yet, that’s exactly what most artists are trying to do—especially now, in a world where:
AI is flooding the market
Attention is fragmented
Trust is harder to earn
So we compensate.
We post more.
We reach out more.
We push harder.
But we forget something fundamental:
The strongest networks aren’t built in transactions. They’re built in time.
“The Long Game Network”
I call this:
The Long Game Network
It’s not about who you meet today.
It’s about who stays in your life long enough to matter.
Those friends you haven’t seen in years?
They’re not “inactive connections.”
They’re dormant opportunities built on trust.
And trust is something no algorithm can replicate.
Emotion Commits the Crime — Logic Does the Cover Up
Here’s what really happened last night:
We didn’t talk business.
We talked about life.
Failures
Family
Growth
Regrets
Wins
And somewhere in between those conversations…
Ideas started forming.
Possibilities opened up.
Not because we were pitching—
But because we remembered who we were to each other.
Emotion built the bridge.
Logic will justify the collaboration later.
That’s how real opportunities are born.
The Solution — How Artists Can Turn Relationships Into Opportunities (Without Being Fake)
Let me give you something practical you can actually use.
1. Stop Networking. Start Reconnecting.
Instead of asking:
“Who can I meet today?”
Ask:
“Who have I forgotten to reach out to?”
Send a simple message:
“Hey, I thought about you today.”
“Let’s catch up.”
No pitch. No agenda.
Just… human.
2. Play the Long Game (Even When It Feels Slow)
Not every connection needs to convert today.
Some of the best opportunities:
Come years later
In unexpected forms
From people who already trust you
Patience is a competitive advantage.
3. Be Someone Worth Reconnecting With
This part matters.
When people see you again, what do they feel?
Growth?
Integrity?
Authenticity?
Or just… another person trying to get something?
Your reputation compounds quietly.
4. Create a Dual Readership
Some people reading this are:
Artists trying to survive
Professionals building networks
This truth applies to both:
Relationships are currency. But only if they’re real.
5. Ask, and You Shall Receive
Here’s the part most people avoid.
After reconnecting… after rebuilding trust…
Ask.
Not aggressively. Not immediately.
But clearly.
“I’m working on a graphic novel—do you know anyone who might be interested?”
“I’m looking for collaborations—thought of you.”
You’ll be surprised how often the answer is:
“Actually… I do.”
Before vs After — The Shift That Changes Everything
Before:
Chasing strangers
Forcing conversations
Measuring worth through followers
Treating networking like a numbers game
After:
Reconnecting with real people
Letting trust do the heavy lifting
Seeing relationships as long-term assets
Building opportunities organically
Final Thought — The Part Most Artists Miss
You don’t need a bigger audience.
You need a stronger circle.
Because at the end of the day:
Opportunities don’t come from platforms.
They come from people who remember you… and trust you.
And sometimes—
All it takes…
Is one night.
One conversation.
One old friend.
If this hit you in the right place, here’s your move:
Message one old friend today.
No pitch.
No plan.
Just connection.
You never know what it might become.
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